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Choosing the right combinationNot all women are equal. In general, there are two categories of women: the Alpha women and the Subordinate women. If you're going to date two women simultaneously, you have to know which combination to date and which ones to avoid.
She is the independent, career-oriented woman who always puts family, love and friendship on the back burner. This type of woman's first priority is getting her career off the ground and becoming successful. She is very busy and doesn't allocate much time to a relationship.
Subordinate Woman (Sub)
She is the dependent, family oriented woman whose main priority is to fall in love and meet her future husband. She has a lot of time to put into a relationship and expects the same in return from her lover.
If you're going to play a two-hole course (I'm not talking about golf), you need to create the right conditions to prevent you from getting into trouble.
The Player says, "You can date two Alpha women at once or one Alpha woman and one Sub woman at once, but you can never date two Subordinate women at once."
Dating two Subs at once is a recipe for disaster. The reasons being that Subs demand so much attention, that it is virtually impossible to properly plan and juggle two draining women such as these.
To ensure success with dating two women, you have to include at least one Alpha woman in your mix. The Alpha woman will be too busy to notice that you have another woman's lipstick smudged on your shirt, and you won't have to worry about cancelling dates so that you can baby-sit the Subs.
Knowing the sacred rulesRule No. 1 - Prioritize your women
You cannot treat both women in the same manner. You have to distinguish one from the other by categorizing them. The "Primary Mate" is the one that has most of the privileges: the "Secondary Mate" has fewer privileges.
From my experience, the Alpha women tend to be Secondary Mates, and the Subs assume the role of the Primary Mates.
Rule No. 2 - Avoid the girl next door
Never date a woman who lives in the same building. The fact that she lives beside you will make it easy for her to keep a close eye on you: you can kiss your freedom and sneaking around goodbye.
Rule No. 3 - One woman per home
Never bring the Secondary Mate back to your place. It is the equivalent of giving her a "carte blanche" to walk in on you whenever she feels like it — this usually happens when the Primary Mate is around.
If the Secondary Mate insists on coming over or finds things a little fishy, tell her that you like your privacy and that maybe you should break things off if she can't handle that.
Remember, your goal is to have fun with the Secondary Mate while keeping the Primary Mate. If things start to get sticky, abort the Secondary Mate and look for a replacement.
Rule No. 4 - No spare keys
Never give your Primary Mate a spare key; it's an invitation for death. One day, you will show up to a clean home and she'll be there to surprise you with sexy lingerie and a romantic dinner, with candles strategically placed in every room.
You will be happy, but what you won't realize is that she also went through your diary, closet, cabinet, drawers, love notes, X-rated pictures, and telephone book to see if she can find anything suspicious — believe me, it's in a woman's nature to do so.
If she asks you for a spare key, tell her that she can have one when she pays half the rent. If she still insists, then bring out the old, "I think the relationship is moving too fast for me" routine. This always works!
Rule No. 5 - Get a cell phone
Never give your home phone number to the Secondary Mate. First, she can find out your address if you are listed in the phone book and drop in on you.
Second, you don't want her calling and leaving messages on the answering machine for your Primary Mate to listen to. Get yourself a cell phone and give her that phone number.
Warning : Make sure your Primary Mate does not have access to your phone bill, or she'll be able to spot all the numbers that you have been in contact with — especially those numbers that recur during the odd late nights.